Why am I mad? Tell me why I'm upset, I don't understand?

You don't want any relationship with your friends with benefits but what you want is attention. For being honest, you are wrong to be mad. You are wrong to be upset. You have no right to be upset because you don't have any relationship with your friend. You are just a friend and you are not a boyfriend or girlfriend either. All you want is attention. You might be like choking them if you will always tell them what to do. They have their own minds and own decisions. Who are you to tell them what to do? You are nothing to them. If i were you, i won't force them to be with me if they don't like. I will let them do whatever they want because it is their life and not mine. The reason why you yell at them is because you might be insecure with other people and you envy them because they are different from you. You also might like one of them but you are just denying it to yourself. I am just giving you an advice so don't get mad once you read this.