I think molesters and there CONSENTUAL victims should be punished, whats your opinion?

to often we here about some kid that consent and enjoyed with and adult that goes to jail. my problem is this; it is very common for girls to exclusively date guys who areolder than high school age. i remember 10 years ago when i was in school it was a postive thing for a girl to do, it elevated her to a social status so far above everyone elses she knew that the only way peers could match it was to play monkey see;monkey do and copy her. i remember them always having money and nice clothes and getting to drive his car to school and semi living in his apartment. the point is that its such a tremendously popular and positive thing to do. meanwhile we forget that if they stop excepting the invitations a significant amout of molesters won't have anyone to molest. mty opinion is base partially on the show "to catch a predetor" the guys on that show are dead wrong for what they do but what about girls who say yes. why not give the girls some kind of penalty tha tmakes them say NO WAY !